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What is Rumination?
Have you ever found yourself caught in a never-ending loop of negative thoughts? This is rumination, where you repetitively and passively dwell on distressing ideas or problems without working toward a solution. While rumination isn't a clinical diagnosis, it's a common characteristic in many mental health conditions. For those dealing with ADHD, rumination can amplify emotional dysregulation, impair executive functioning, and hinder coping skills, often making you feel overwhelmed by negative thoughts, past events, or future worries.
There are two main types of rumination:
- Reflective Rumination: This involves intentionally pondering a problem to find solutions. It can be productive if it leads to problem-solving.
- Brooding Rumination: This passively compares your current situation with some unachieved standard without actively seeking solutions. Brooding is often linked with anxiety, depression, and stress.
When it comes to ADHD and rumination, we're mostly talking about brooding rumination. This thinking disrupts your ability to live happily and negatively affects your thought patterns.
Understanding ADHD and Rumination in Adults
For those with ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), rumination often reflects challenges with executive functions such as attention, concentration, and emotional regulation. While not a core symptom of ADHD, rumination is strongly associated with it. If you have ADHD, you might find yourself fixated on thoughts about things you regret doing or wish you had done differently, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy or regret. But why does the ADHD brain seem to get stuck in these negative loops?
Here are some reasons:
1. Brain Activity:
In ADHD brains, the Default Mode Network (DMN)—the part of the brain that is active during rest and self-reflection—is often overactive. This overactivity can lead to getting stuck in repetitive, negative thoughts, or rumination.
2. Difficulty Switching Tasks:
People with ADHD often have trouble switching from the DMN (resting mode) to the task-focused parts of the brain. This difficulty in shifting focus makes it challenging to stop ruminating and start concentrating on the tasks at hand.
3. Neurotransmitter Imbalances:
ADHD is associated with imbalances in brain chemicals like dopamine and serotonin. These imbalances can exacerbate negative thinking and rumination.
Individuals with ADHD often struggle with an overactive brain that causes them to get stuck in negative thoughts. They also face difficulties in shifting their focus from these thoughts to the tasks they need to complete, creating a cycle of rumination and emotional distress.
The Impact of Rumination on ADHD People
1. Increased Anxiety and Depression:
Constant negative thinking can worsen feelings of anxiety and depression. For those with ADHD, who already face challenges with emotional regulation, rumination can make it even harder to manage emotions, creating a vicious cycle where emotional distress and rumination feed into each other.
2. Behavioral Impact:
Rumination can disrupt daily activities and make it harder to stay focused. When you're stuck in a loop of repetitive, unproductive thinking, it can lead to frustration, greater distractibility, and lower self-esteem, which only fuels more rumination.
3. Worsening ADHD Symptoms:
Rumination can exacerbate ADHD symptoms by making it difficult to manage emotions. When you're consumed with overthinking and obsessing over negative thoughts, it leads to feeling emotionally drained, irritable, and less capable of emotional regulation. Over time, this can impair problem-solving abilities and decision-making due to mental fatigue and cognitive overload.
Mental Health Issues Associated with Rumination
Rumination isn't just an ADHD issue; it's a common feature in various mental health conditions, each with its unique triggers:
- Depression: Involves ruminating on personal distress, potentially worsening symptoms.
- Anxiety Disorders: Includes excessive worry about future events or daily concerns.
- PTSD: Features intrusive thoughts about traumatic experiences.
- Eating Disorders: Focuses on body image or food-related thoughts.
- Personality Disorders: Often relates to fears of abandonment or self-image.
- OCD: Involves ruminating on obsessive thoughts.
Are You Ruminating?
Wondering if what you're experiencing is rumination? Check out these signs:
Persistent Negative Thinking:
- Constantly dwelling on past mistakes, regrets, or failures.
- Frequently think about what could have gone wrong or what might go wrong.
- Repeatedly criticizing yourself for perceived shortcomings or inadequacies.
- Blaming yourself for situations beyond your control.
Feeling Stuck:
- Finding it hard to move past negative thoughts and feelings.
- Feeling trapped in a cycle of negative thinking without seeing solutions.
Mood Deterioration:
- Experiencing increased sadness, anxiety, or irritability due to persistent negative thoughts.
- Noticing a decline in overall mood and outlook on life.
Increased Anxiety and Worry:
- Constantly worrying about things that have already happened or might happen.
- Feeling anxious, with racing thoughts and tension without a clear reason.
Physical Symptoms:
- Experiencing headaches, muscle tension, or other physical symptoms related to stress and anxiety.
- Feeling physically fatigued or drained due to ongoing mental stress.
Social Withdrawal:
- Avoiding social interactions because of preoccupation with negative thoughts.
- Feeling disconnected from friends and family due to your focus on brooding.
Difficulty with Concentration:
- Struggling to focus on tasks or conversations because of intrusive negative thoughts.
- Finding it hard to be productive or complete tasks due to an inability to concentrate.
Sleep Disturbances:
- Having trouble falling asleep or staying asleep due to ruminating thoughts.
- Experiencing restless or non-restorative sleep.
Hopelessness:
- Feeling hopeless or pessimistic about the future.
- Believing that things will not improve or that you are powerless to change your situation.
Impaired Decision-Making:
- Finding it difficult to make decisions or use coping skills because you're stuck thinking about all the negative possibilities.
- Second-guessing your choices and feeling paralyzed by indecision.
Emotional Exhaustion:
- Feeling emotionally drained or burned out from constant negative thinking.
- Lacking the energy or motivation to engage in activities you used to enjoy.
Are You an ADHD Woman? Rumination is different.
Here's how rumination might be different for you:
- ✅ Increased rumination during PMS or PMDD.
- ✅ More rumination during pregnancy and postpartum.
- ✅ Higher stress from societal expectations and gender roles.
- ✅ Increased self-criticism and perfectionism.
- ✅ Greater focus on social interactions and relationships.
- ✅ More empathy leads to rumination about others' feelings.
- ✅ More emotional rumination rather than problem-solving.
- ✅ Seeking social support can sometimes increase rumination.
- ✅ Higher rates of depression and anxiety.
- ✅ More rumination on past trauma or abuse.
Practical Strategies:
- ✅ Track menstrual cycle to see rumination patterns.
- ✅ Talk to doctors about hormonal treatments.
- ✅ Practice mindfulness to notice your thoughts.
- ✅ Use self-compassion exercises to be kinder to yourself.
- ✅ Challenge negative thoughts with cognitive restructuring.
- ✅ Stay busy with activities to reduce rumination.
- ✅ Build a support network of friends and family.
- ✅ Seek therapy for more help.
Final Thoughts
If you recognize these signs, know you're not alone. Understanding how rumination works can help you find ways to manage it. It's about learning to shift your focus and break the cycle. Seeking support from a mental health professional can also provide tools and strategies to help manage rumination and its effects on your life.
Click on this page for tips about how to beat rumination
Click on this page for tips on how to tell the difference between ocd rumination and adhd rumination
Here is a great worksheet from a site in the UK that has a good explanation of rumination.
Rumination Articles
Eisma, M. C. (2011). Is rumination after bereavement linked with loss avoidance? Evidence from eye-tracking. DANS. https://doi.org/10.17026/dans-xnj-3tzc
Gibb, B. E., Grassia, M., Stone, L. B., Uhrlass, D. J., & McGeary, J. E. (2012). Brooding rumination and risk for depressive disorders in children of depressed mothers. Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, 40(2), 317-326. http://dx.doi.org/10.1007/s10802-011-9554-y
Ilt, L. M., & Pollak, S. D. (2012). Getting out of rumination: Comparison of three brief interventions in a sample of youth. Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, 40(7), 1157-1165. http://dx.doi.org/10.1007/s10802-012-9638-3
Rumination Books
Kumar, S. M. (2010). The Mindful Path through Worry and Rumination : Letting Go of Anxious and Depressive Thoughts. Oakland, US: New Harbinger Publications. Retrieved from http://www.ebrary.com